FRIENDS, ACQUAINTANCES OR UNDISCOVERED ENEMIES ❤😏🤔

What exactly does friendship mean to you? I once had a feud with a course mate because i had considered her an acquaintance when in actual sense she was being a friend...a good one at that😩. It hurt her that i had considered her an acquaintance because her intentions towards me were sincere...how insensitive of me😑

You see, relationships are quite tricky, whether romantic, family, platonic...as long as feelings are involved, a lot of things are bound to play out with compromises at the fore front...you get baa?

I have had different experiences all in the name of friendship mehn!😪 I've been moved to tears so many times...for good and bad because oh well, i cry for almost everything😏 . I have had "friends" take me for granted, i have had "friends" laugh at my flaws, i have had "friends" turn their backs on me when i needed them the most.

I have not been the best myself 🤷🏽 but one thing is for sure, i always try to apologize and show remorse and that is one of the things i am very proud of myself for. Nobody is perfect but how about a conscious effort to be the best version of yourself especially towards fellow humans.

Dear reader, is your friend a friend to you? Are you your friend's friend? Does he/she find peace in your existence or are you a source of brutal toxicity🙁.

My darling, look closely at the people around you and apply wisdom. Polish your character and watch your company. Some are there to stay, some are there to walk you through a phase, some are there to learn from you, some are there to suck your blood!!!

Scroll through your contact list and do the grouping yourself... Friend? Acquaintance? or Undiscovered Enemies cos whether you like it or not, everybody has predators lying in wait and errrm, before you start screaming "louder", "preach on sis"...make sure you ain't the devil yourself love☺

And oh! Here comes the best part😊 i have had FRIENDS support me, cry and laugh with me, send me credit alerts and carry my matter on their head like fried plantain- shhh don't say anything, i know 😂😂 - so yea! I'm one blessed chap😋

Sooooo tell me honey, your friendship experiences, good or bad or even ugly. Let's set the comment session on firrrreeeee😵. P.S if you feel attacked by this post...you know what to do😌❤


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  1. UnknownJanuary 30, 2020 at 2:42 PM

    I will say I'm very unfortunate in making friends... Most friends I think I have always turned out to be enemies...
    The truth is I have been hurt by friends more than I can remember friends making me happy or being there for me...
    But no matter the hurtful feelings and betrayal I don't think I can stop making friends... Cos I feel there is still someone out there that needs me... (PS: I don't really know if I'm putting my words correctly but that's how it is in my head)
    I cherish, love and protect the very few people I can call my friends.

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    1. GraceJanuary 30, 2020 at 2:51 PM

      Your heart is perfect love❤...don't change it for anything

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  2. UnknownFebruary 3, 2020 at 4:03 PM

    Great Piece!

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  3. CeejayFebruary 4, 2020 at 3:38 PM

    This thing called friendship.. Is the reason why i close my circle.. I made the number down to 2.. So it's 2 of them and myself.. It's now a triangle from a circle. Not everyone are supposed to be around you.
    No go dey hug person wey your connection with am suppose end of hello and hi.

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  4. UnknownFebruary 18, 2020 at 2:21 PM

    I've not been the best of friends lately, but I'm a work in progress 🙂

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