What exactly is your problem😪🤷🏽

We are taking this sadness thing too serious mehn😪...next thing depression, then suicidal thoughts...before you know it, you're googling "fastest ways to die without feeling so much pain"...p.s i'd recommend binge cos google will start telling you to talk to someone 😂 ... Very nice and considerate something 😏.

When you die what next? You only just succeeded in inflicting pain and scarring those who love you for life. And your parents? The people that suffered to send money to train you and feed you and house you and clothe you🤷🏽. And worst of all🙂 You think life is too hard? Wait till you burn in hell for taking your life...life that you did not give yourself🤦🏾

Oya let's do a little evaluation of "Possible Situations That Could Be Causing Your Sadness"...p.s this is going to be a pretty long post...long but interesting 😌
...back to our evaluation ( please forgive my excessive use of ellipses 😩 )

PEER PRESSURE a.k.a "CAN'T YOU SEE YOUR MATES?"

This one in particular is just very very urrrgggghhhhhh😩😡😠 and funny enough it comes from all angles...family, friends, social media, school, street, every freaking where!!! Even our own selves😩

I won't lie, i have been a victim of this once or twice or even more. Seeing people i grew up with, flexing expensive IOS devices, in private schools, riding cars and hanging out in fine ass restaurants, going on dates, traveling to various countries, snaps and insta stories on fireeeee, make up on fleek...and then there's me😐 mumsi wouldn't even let me get my nails done and won't even allow me visit my friends because "Nigeria is bad" 😂😂

And before i knew it, i was always crying, over thinking, never smiling, i hated my siblings because i had to take care of them that's why i wasn't allowed to go out. I hated my parents because i believed they didn't let me "live my life" and all of that...but thank God for growth and sense😂 😂 

Chill out yo! Love your immediate environment and stop craving what you see on the internet. I hope you know someone somewhere craves the peace and love life has offered you but your big empty head desires glitz and glamour that you have no idea the price that was paid 🤦🏾

Nobody said you shouldn't dream big, but you need to apply wisdom...love yourself and work out the kind of life you want to live cos right here, there's a thin line between envy and admiration. Have sense dear! Because this aunty is hot with so many followers and this uncle is living large on the gram you want to gaan hang yourself or drink sniper...can you perceive the reeking odor of your foolishness? 

NO MONEY IN THE BANK!

Haaaaeeewwww this one is just the most heart breaking😂😂 an account balance that causes fever😭...my take on this? Turn your hobbies to money, learn a skill, get busy! The little streaks of cash that fall in will legit make you smile. And hey! It doesn't just boom at once dear...you require a high level of patience ooo, business ain't a joke at all!!! You can ask my friends...Leez Glam, Vicky With Glitz And Subtle, Connie'S Cakes, Chubbie Fitz, El Rhey And Kristal, Elegah Grills, Chuku Jayne kuku busted my brain when i found out she deals on confectioneries, my sweet cousin Yagi The Programmer, Maryjane And Amara John are fashion designers, Adaeze makes foot wears, Pbcre8Tions with the graphic designs, my blogging inspiration Thegraceola and Mgbodichi, 49 Empire that just gives me goose bumps with his billionaire mentality and a whole lot more that I can't seember at the moment.

These guys are young people making huge moves. Young people that will start showing mind blowing results in few years if they remain consistent and trust me, there will be the "you forgot me na geng" and "you are balling without me geng" that were curling up in their beds because according to them, they were sad and refused to put that behind them and get to work! 

ACADEMIC SETBACKS 

This one eh! I'm a victim😂😂 Its funny now because i had to just learn to deal with it. School is hard! Not everybody has the grace to enter and come out once. See baa, I'm supposed to be in 400 level but naaa i have plenty issues that i had to step back down to 300 level. I haven't told my parents yet cos i have been scared of their reaction for a very long time now but I'll deal with that soon and that will be a story for another day.

You failed? Ehen? You ain't the first person biko. Stop beating yourself up and double your focus and prayers and come and thank me later🤓😌❤💪🏾

BROKEN HEART

Stoppppeeeeetttttttttt!!!!!! Stop crying, stop the anger, stop it just stop!!!!
Your best friend betrayed you? He/she is human...forgive and move on naa...i hope you know that person is living life and you are here keeping grudges and remaining stagnant in life. Make peace even though you weren't wrong and just move along for Christ's sake!

Your lover left you? Leave the person alone and focus on your life and build yourself naa....what is it!?!??! You tried to fix things, you apologized, you begged, you upped your sex game, you cooked, you cleaned, you bought presents but he/she is still hurting you and you're still there? C'mon you can do better than that?

Kai! No no no... To be continued🙂