My space😀

A wise woman once said "there are people in the world who really cherish their space and would rather dwell there than associate with other humans. I really do not blame them because there's a lot of flesh and blood and bones lacking souls everywhere"...i am wise woman, wise woman is me 🤓😌😎

If by any chance you feel triggered by this post...well🤷🏽...moving on however 😊, i really want to emphasise on how important it is to make your space as nice and as comfortable as possible so you can enjoy it no matter how much of a "people person" you are.

You see, this is the reason introverts will always win this battle of resisting unbelievable humans...don't get me wrong dear...I'm not saying you shouldn't have friends or goons but are you your goons' goon? This is not about being "woke", this is about being realistic. You are either being delusional or plain blind if you say you don't recognize fakeness because it shows😩💥💔

Sometimes we stick around these toxic people because we have done a lot of things for them, we have made sacrifices and therefore the sense of entitlement kicks in, to the detriment of our mental health.

For how long will you continue to stick around a circle of friends who don't even consider you as one of theirs? The beautiful part of this whole thing is that some way, somehow, this gossip must have leaked or you may have sensed something that doesn't feel right but hell na! Your pure heart continues to place you on the receiving end, turning you to such a sweet mumu😀🙂🙄.

On the other hand however, there are good people God has just placed in your lives to make sure your smile doesn't stop at just your lips, but makes a journey from deep down your heart through your lips and then to your eyes. People who are there to light up your world and make living worth the while.

These ones don't usually come in the looks/appearances we desire but we really should learn to stop chasing after shadows/people who don't want us and try not to frustrate the efforts of the people that want to do nothing but love us.

Love isn't as difficult as we make it look. All you need do is study yourself, add value to your life, love yourself because you can't give what you don't have, do good without expecting returns and understand just exactly when its time to walk out.
...i think i'd just end here.

Listening to Beautiful People by Chike.
You should too😊

BEFORE I TURN 20 series will begin 14th of February...ANTICIPATE!!!